Meeting for Coffee
Word of advice out there to everyone. When meeting someone for the first time, doing it in a really small Starbucks over coffee, where the heat is amplified by the fact that you're nervois as hell and start to sweat, is not a good idea. Thankfully, she was just as nervous and turning various shades of red. It was a good thing that by the end of our 30 minute chat I dried off and she turned back to a normal shade for one's complexion.
Other than that, the meeting over coffee with A went very, very well I think. After the initial weirdness, and nervousness we settled down and had a nice little talk, too short for sure, but she had to get back to class. At the end of it I asked her out on a proper date and she said yes, so thats a very good thing. Now the only thing left it to iron out the details.
I also had my first phone conversation with K and that went well too. She's got a very different personality from A, thats for sure, but not in a bad way. We'll see how that progresses as well. In the meantime I'm going to keep getting to know both until its time to make some kind of choice. My mom was asking me about talking on the phone last night and I said I was talking to someone other than A, which she already knew about because of the 20 question interrogation she gave me the other night. She said it was a bad idea and that I'd get caught, and I just said that I was trying to meet as many people as possible, so thank you everyone for backing me up.
Alright, back to work!
Comments
Well, Matt, usually Mothers are right, and I hate disagreeing w/moms, but I think this is a lil different, your only talking to just 2 diff. girls, so you date either or both for a lil, and when you are really sure, or it becomes physical or emotional, it'll just gradually go into a relationship & you wont want to see/date or talk to any other women, but I think for right now, your just out there meeting women, and **hopefully** not turning into a "serial dater"..ya know??
Posted by: Lori | April 5, 2005 2:36 PM